That’s a really heavy thing to go through. Being mistreated by a close family member—especially over a long time and with others enabling it—can leave a deep emotional impact.
If this is something you’re currently experiencing or still around, the most important question is: are you safe right now?
No one deserves abuse, and it’s also not normal or acceptable for it to be encouraged by others in the household. Situations like this can feel very isolating, especially when family members minimize or support the behavior, but outside support does exist.
Depending on your situation, a few practical next steps people often consider are:
- Talking to a trusted person outside the home (relative, friend, neighbor, teacher, etc.)
- Reaching out to a local counselor or mental health professional
- If there’s ongoing harm, contacting local support services or helplines for family abuse or domestic violence in your area
If you want, you can tell me a bit more about what’s going on (or whether this is past or present), and I can help you think through what options might realistically be available where you live.
